Am I In An Abusive Relationship?

Everyone has arguments , and everyone disagree with their partners, family members and others close to them from time to time. And we all do things at times that we regret, and which cause unhappiness to those we care about. But if this begins to form a consistent pattern, then it is an indication of domestic violence and abuse.

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The answers to the following questions may help you to decide if you are in an abusive relationship.

Does your partner constantly belittle or humiliate you, or regularly criticise or insult you?

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Has your partner ever kept you short of money so you are unable to buy food and other necessary items for yourself and your children or made you take out loans?

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Has your partner ever hurt or threatened you or your children?

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Has your partner ever destroyed any of your possessions deliberately?

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Have you ever changed your behavior because you are afraid of what your partner might do or say to you?

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Are you ever afraid of your partner?

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Has your partner tried to keep you from seeing your friends or family?

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Has your partner prevented you or made it hard for you to continue or start studying, or from going to work?